“Iโ€™ve found that people love me when I expect little from them, and hate me when I expect more. What they fail to realise is that the higher my expectation, the greater my belief in their ability to be amazing.”
(via bairaag)

(Source: distilled-wisdom)

“I am a very private person, yet I am an open book.
If you donโ€™t askโ€ฆ I wonโ€™t tell.”

ENTJ Confessions #29


"I have extremely high expectations of myself. I tend to unconsciously impose those standards on people, and it makes me appear arrogant. Realistically, all I feel in such situations is alone."

ENTJ Confessions #40


"It annoys me that people associate ENTJs with "having no feelings" or "not caring about other peopleโ€™s feelings." I have emotions, and I care about other people emotions. I just donโ€™t think making decisions based on how you feel is a good idea. And when you tell me that youโ€™re upset, I think the most appropriate way for me to comfort you is to help you think through the problem and come up with a solution. Thatโ€™s how I care."

ENTJ Confessions #42


"If you want an honest attempt at solving your problem, come to me. If you donโ€™t want to fix your problem, then donโ€™t."

ENTJ Confessions #56


"I think that real ENTJโ€™s do not have to command people to be efficient. They are so fucking good at what they do, people WANT to follow them. If you are bossy and dictatorial you are unworthy of the gifts of this personality."

ENTJ Confessions #65


"When people wrongly try to correct me I usually immediately just go "No really, keep talking. Itโ€™s cute how you think you actually know more than me."


You donโ€™t choose who you want to be but, rather what character you want to play - DesertWinds

“The problem is that white people see racism as conscious hate, when racism is bigger than that. Racism is a complex system of social and political levers and pulleys set up generations ago to continue working on the behalf of whites at other peopleโ€™s expense, whether whites know/like it or not. Racism is an insidious cultural disease. It is so insidious that it doesnโ€™t care if you are a white person who likes black people; itโ€™s still going to find a way to infect how you deal with people who donโ€™t look like you. Yes, racism looks like hate, but hate is just one manifestation. Privilege is another. Access is another. Ignorance is another. Apathy is another. And so on. So while I agree with people who say no one is born racist, it remains a powerful system that weโ€™re immediately born into. Itโ€™s like being born into air: you take it in as soon as you breathe. Itโ€™s not a cold that you can get over. There is no anti-racist certification class. Itโ€™s a set of socioeconomic traps and cultural values that are fired up every time we interact with the world. It is a thing you have to keep scooping out of the boat of your life to keep from drowning in it. I know itโ€™s hard work, but itโ€™s the price you pay for owning everything.”

Scott Woodsย (X)

he motherfucking dropped the truth.

(via mesmerisme)


(via queerfabulousmermaid)

this is a super important explanation to think about whenever you feel like telling someone that something isnโ€™t racist because you donโ€™t hate x person.

(via robotsandfrippary)

(Source: luvyourselfsomeesteem)

California. by (lockedcog)

California. by (lockedcog)

(Source: R2--D2)